So here's the thing about getting family photos taken - it's a big deal! As a photographer it's easy for me to forget that YOU, my families, don't do this every single day. That having to figure out what to wear is hard and that because you haven't done this a zillion times already, you are stressed. You worry that the kids won't cooperate and that the pictures will be ruined and if they're ruined... well too bad because it's not like you'll be doing this again in a week or two. Family photos are an investment which means you really need to make each session count!
Now, as the photographer I know that the really good photogs can get beautiful images no matter what kids are throwing at them. I know that outfits matter, but not THAT THAT much... it's not essential that everyone be in the same 3 colors in order to look good together. But you don't know those things like I know those things.
So when we got our family photos taken recently, there was a little of this, a little of that. I waited til the last minute to figure out our outfits and wasn't 100% in love, but also didn't have the time/energy to rearrange them over and over. The kids were very tired and had had a busy day. I was worried about whether or not they'd cooperate. I was hungry. Let's just say it's not like I perfectly set myself up for success.
Except I did.
Because I chose a photographer to document our family that I knew could handle anything. I trusted her and her vision and her talent. Before the session it was my job to be in charge of the kids clothes, behavior, etc... but once we got there, I was practically off duty! Rather than micromanage them, I let go and decided I was going to be delighted by those little rascals no matter what. Photo sessions really truly can be fun for kids, but not if their parents are telling them no repeatedly while the photographer is telling them to do something fun.
It's not hard to work with a happy kid even if they're not technically following all the directions perfectly. The photos of them will still look amazing. Stressed out, anxious, annoyed parents though? Ain't nothing making them look good!!
This mini session is a perfect example of parents who enjoyed their kiddo and each other rather than letting the stress take over. And it's the reason nearly every single shot from their session was a keeper!!